Signs for unmarried girls who want to get married. Signs for unmarried girls. What promises a quick wedding? What do the months of the year say about marriage?

Any girl, even one who says that she is not interested in marriage, secretly dreams of a beautiful wedding and a beloved husband. And there are a number of signs that will tell you that your wedding day is approaching or will help you find your loved one.

Since ancient times, unmarried girls used to tell fortunes and listen to various signs. There are a large number of them. Let's look at the most common signs for marriage, which will be of interest to young girls looking for their betrothed.

Signs that will tell you about an imminent marriage

Since ancient times, girls have paid Special attention signs for the Annunciation and Intercession Holy Mother of God. The Intercession is celebrated by believers in the fall, or more precisely, in the middle of it. Young girls tried to spend this day having fun, organizing festivities and entertainment. The sign for Intercession says that if you spend this holiday cheerfully, you will meet a good groom. Also, the girls went to church in the morning to pray in front of the icon of the Mother of God. The one who does this first will soon get married.

In April the Annunciation is celebrated. If you want to get married, don't wear it on ring finger On this day, ring and do not braid your hair.

Fasting will also help you become a wife. It is necessary to observe Lent and also fast every year on November 7th.

Meeting a young man on a certain day of the week (Thursday) can result in a wedding.

If an unmarried girl became a godmother, then soon she will become a bride. But this sign will come true only after the baby learns to walk.

Signs associated with the marriage of a friend and sister can lead to a wedding:

If a representative of the fair sex sits between brothers at a wedding table, then she will soon become a wife.
A pin or needle will help make your dream come true. You can ask the bride for a pin pinned to the dress, or a needle that was used to hem it or at least a couple of stitches were made with it.
If you are doused with champagne at a wedding, you can be happy, not upset. This is a sign that you will soon marry your loved one.
If you are a relative or close friend of the bride, then you are incredibly lucky. Ask her permission to hem the hem wedding dress. By hemming the bride's dress, you are bringing your own wedding day closer.
A well-known sign is to catch the bride’s bouquet for an early marriage. But it is worth considering that this only works with a real bouquet (which the bride was with all day). Today, many brides do not want to part with their bouquet, so they stock up on a backup bouquet. It is he who is thrown, but in this case the omen will not come true.

Signs for unmarried girls: what not to do?

There are signs that warn a girl. They hint at events that should be avoided:

You cannot pass anything over the threshold, since in this case you will never get married. This is especially true for water.
While cleaning, be careful not to get caught in the mess. Thus, you close yourself off from marriage. You also can’t sweep the floor from window to door - you’re sweeping away all potential suitors.
If the youngest of the sisters becomes the first to become a wife, then the eldest may not expect marriage anytime soon.
If you don't like cleaning the house, then you won't get married soon.
Do not dance at the wedding of friends or family with the man sitting next to you. This action will delay your wedding day for a long time.
A young girl should not sit in the corner of the table, as she will not become a wife for several years.
You won’t become a wife for a long time if you actively participate in all the competitions and entertainment at someone else’s wedding.

Signs for unmarried girls when preparing for a wedding

If you have set a wedding date and have already begun to prepare for it, this does not mean that you will become a wife. You should pay attention to a number of signs and warnings that must be observed even before marriage:

Getting married in sandals is highly discouraged. This is considered a sign of an imminent divorce. If you don’t know which shoes to choose, then it is better to give preference to closed models (the toe and heel must be closed). They will bring happiness. If there are no fasteners on them, then in the future the woman will have an easy childbirth.
The choice of dress color also has its own nuances. White dress(classic version) is generally considered a symbol of innocence. If you don’t like the white option, then you can choose soft pastel shades. But you shouldn’t get married in a blue dress, because in this case your husband will lose interest in you soon after the wedding.
You should not try on a wedding dress that someone has already gotten married in. It is necessary to purchase a new dress, even if it is simple, but it must be new.
You can't do your hair in front of anyone else.

When to get married? The best months to get married are February, June, August, September, November and December.

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A wedding is the most important and memorable event in the life of lovers, so it must be approached with all responsibility. So that the preparation for the wedding, and then the wedding celebration, goes off “without a hitch” and no little things overshadow the holiday, and even more so, so that the fate of the newlyweds turns out happily, all its participants (the newlyweds, their parents, relatives and guests) have a good time would listen to folk signs, prohibitions and regulations.

Signs for girls who want to get married

In order to get married and not stay with girls for a long time, you cannot sweep the floor from the table to the threshold, but you need to sweep in the opposite direction - from the threshold to the table.

Don't braid your hair in public - they won't come to you as a matchmaker.

If you are asked to give water, do not pass it over the threshold - otherwise you will not get married.

If a girl's apron on her stomach often gets wet while doing laundry or washing dishes, then she might be married to a drunkard.

If a girl carrying a bucket of water from the well to the house spills water from the bucket, they said that such a husband would have thick lips or a “lip slap.”

When sweeping the floors in the house, do not sweep around yourself with a broom - you will cover yourself, fence yourself off from suitors, and you may not get married at all. This prohibition is based on an understanding of the symbolism of the circle. Remember the games of your childhood, especially catch-up. Feeling that you were about to be overtaken, you stopped abruptly and immediately drew a circle around you, saying: “Forget me!” And none of the participants in the game dared to cross the line, to break the ancient rule of ritual behavior.

You can’t stand on the threshold while you’re eating something - you won’t get married for a long time.

To get married well, on the eve of the feast of the Holy Great Martyr Catherine (November 7), you should fast and read prayers.

July 3 (day of veneration St. John long-suffering) women who have been abandoned by their husbands attend church services so that their second marriage will be successful.

Fortune telling for marriage

On Intercession (October 14) and Christmastide, the bride released a hen or a rooster (or rather) and laid out coins, bread, coal, water and wood chips in front of the bird. The young women watched with bated breath to see what the ROOSTER would approach. It’s good if he pecks at the coin, the marriage will be satisfying and rich. If there is bread, that’s also good, average income is a good thing. To coal, it’s a pity, but what can you do, such is fate - to be poor in marriage, to know the need. If he comes to the water - oh, my husband will be a drunkard. And if suddenly the rooster chooses a sliver, it’s very bad, leading to death.

They also took the chicken from the roost and laid out rings in front of it: copper, silver and gold. It is clear that a gold ring means a good husband, a silver ring means a normal life, average income. And copper - life will be unenviable, poor.

On the same Christmastide, girls went out late at night to the woodshed and, in complete darkness, took the first log they came across from the woodpile. And they looked carefully at the houses in the light. The one whose log is smooth, without knots, is lucky; her husband will be kind and friendly. And if there are cracks and knots on the log, there were tears - the husband will be angry and bad.

They also did this: they made swans from candle wax - a swan and a swan, and painted the swan with blush. They poured water into a large cup and let the steam in, and covered it with a scarf on top. Before going to bed we looked at what was happening with the swans. If they swim together, married life will be wonderful, the husband will love and cherish his wife, there will be peace and harmony in the house. And if they swim in different directions, alas, there will be quarrels and scandals, enmity in the house.
On Christmastide, and sometimes the day before the wedding, a young bride would go out into the street to listen to conversations under other people’s windows. And the very first window told her about marriage: if there were quarrels and scandals there, then married life would be unsuccessful, but if fun, laughter, and singing were heard there, life would be cheerful and happy.

Signs for matchmaking

According to the ideas of our ancestors, Thursday was considered the best day for matchmaking.

One of the key figures in the events and rituals of the pre-wedding period, as well as in the ritual of the wedding itself, is the matchmaker. As a rule, he should be a person over 40 years old, with a family and children, with appropriate social authority, able to manage the course of events and maintain the necessary rhythm of the festive action.

They do not take a divorced man or a man who has no children as a matchmaker.

Entering the house of the bride’s parents, the matchmaker knocked the heel of his left foot three times on the threshold and quietly said: “They are silent (meaning the ancestors of the owners of the house) and you are silent, don’t say a word against.”

When you go to woo your future daughter-in-law, let your son come in first.

Guests do not take off their hats in front of her parents until they are seated at the table.

If one of the matchmakers manages to take a spoon from the bride’s house, then the son will be the master of the house and his wife will never leave him. Three months after their wedding, the spoon must be thrown into the bride's house.

To refuse the groom, the girl just needs to give him a knife.

If the first groom comes to woo a girl, the toes of his shoes must be washed with water. Then the girl should wash herself with this water, wash her hands, saying: “A hundred suitors will follow your trail to me.” Or cover his tracks to the house with a broom with the same plot.

Signs for the choice of witnesses (matchmakers, best man, groomsmen, bridesmaids)

Misfortune will befall a young couple who announce their upcoming marriage at the end of one quarter of the year and get married at the beginning of the next.

Groomsmen, best men or honorary witnesses are chosen from among the closest friends.

Such an honorable role at a wedding can only be performed once in a lifetime, in order to create your family in a timely manner, in otherwise You can harm yourself by remaining best man forever.

When tying towels on matchmakers or pinning flowers on honorary witnesses, remember that women’s clothes are fastened on the left side, and men’s on the right. Consequently, the towel is tied to the matchmaker over the left shoulder under right hand, and matchmaking, on the contrary, is over the right shoulder under the left arm. Flowers are also attached to honorable witnesses in the same way: for a guy - with right side, for the girl - on the left.

The most honored guests at a wedding should be the godparents of the bride and groom, as well as grandparents. These people are a kind of safe conduct for the wedding celebration. If for some reason (death, they live in another city, etc.) they cannot attend the wedding, then the day before they should go to the temple, light candles (for peace or health) and pray for them.

If one of the parents of the bride or groom has died, if the parents are divorced, i.e. at the time of the wedding they are not a married couple, then folk tradition prohibits them from participating in the wedding ceremony and as the most important ritual rites. In their place, imprisoned parents are chosen - a prosperous married couple with children of their own. They are chosen from a circle of relatives or close friends. They send the newlyweds down the aisle and meet them after the wedding.

Signs for a bachelorette party

There is an old belief that the bride needs to cry on her bachelorette party and before the wedding - “If you don’t cry at the table, you will cry behind the pillar,” that is, after the wedding you will shed tears in an unhappy marriage.

At a bachelorette party, they give the bride to wash herself with the beer:

“How pure you are, gold and silver,
Clean and decent
How about you, gold and silver,
Everyone gets dressed up, looks in,
Old and young, married and single,
Old crones and young ladies,
Beautiful girls and young fellows,
It would be like that for you, slave... (name),
Everyone got excited and stared,
It would seem like gold and silver to them.
They would look and look,
They wouldn’t take their eyes off you.”

When a bachelorette party takes place, the bride's brother or some boy in the groom's house packs the groom's gifts and brings them to the bride.

The same boy must put on the bride’s shoes for the crown.

Before leaving for the wedding, the bride, who wants her sisters to get married faster, should lightly pull the tablecloth that covers the table.

On the eve of your own celebration. It just so happened that signs were passed down from generation to generation that suggested how to get married successfully and keep troubles away from your future family.

Be that as it may, many signs really help to avoid troubles or minor failures. If you pay attention, today a whole collection of interpretations of omens has been passed down from our ancestors. The main thing is to use it correctly and on time.

Modern society is quite skeptical about omens, signs and omens, finding a logical justification and justification for everything. Yes, indeed, now everything can be proven or disproved, but is it worth ignoring what has been taken into account for centuries and many generations of mankind?

Now everything is subject to logical analysis and supported by facts, and all signs and signs are considered simply a person’s faith. Should we reject something that was not invented by us? After all, many people, not believing in omens, still believe in horoscopes. Let's consider what wedding signs exist, and what interests unmarried girls most of all.

Many people believe in omens for marriage...

Do not confuse the far-fetched desire to get married as soon as possible with omens. After all, it happens that a girl strong desire to become a wife, she is simply looking for signs around herself. This is all far-fetched and makes no sense.

If a girl is soon to get married, then secret signs will be present regardless of whether the girl pays attention to them or not.

Of course, thanks to the signs, it will not be possible to bring the wedding date closer, but by paying attention to secret symbols and signs, you can understand what awaits a person in the near future. Verified signs or signs include the following phenomena:

Dreaming with dead relatives. A person's premonition about changes in the near future can be reflected in his dreams. We may have prophetic dreams that, on a subconscious level, warn us of impending changes. Therefore, dreams of deceased relatives are quite often an omen of imminent marriage.
colors. If a girl accidentally finds a bouquet of flowers, then this is a sign of imminent marriage. However, this should not be confused with a bouquet of flowers that was intentionally given to her.
Uncomfortable sensations in the initial stage of sleep. They say that when a girl feels discomfort and someone’s presence in her bed before going to bed, it is “the brownie” that is suffocating her. Thus, he drives her out of the house into the arms of her future husband.
Prick/cut your finger New Year's Eve. This is an old sign, but, unfortunately, there is no interpretation and answer to the question: why does a cut on the finger on New Year’s Eve signify an imminent marriage?
Embroider a red peony. According to legend, in order to get married soon, a girl needs to embroider a red peony, because... this flower is a symbol of a happy family life.
The floor must be swept from entrance doors to the windows, and not vice versa.
Prayer on the feast of St. Catherine. It is believed that girls who fast and pray on November 7, St. Catherine's Day, will definitely have good luck.
Become a godmother. As soon as the little godson learns to walk, the godmother will find family happiness.
Sit between 2 brothers or sisters.

Wedding signs

Signs for marriage are passed down from generation to generation.

There is a belief that a married woman’s friends will quickly get married. And how soon this will happen, you can find out by attending your friend’s wedding.

Whether a girl will marry successfully can be determined by the signs associated with someone else’s wedding. For example:

You were accidentally doused with champagne or other wine
Catch the bride's wedding bouquet
Get yourself a pin/hairpin from the bride
Dance with the groom (for some reason it is believed that this is a surefire way to get married successfully in the near future)

What to do to avoid delaying marriage?

If a girl wants to get married as soon as possible, then she should not do the following:

Sitting on the corner of the table while eating
Sit on the windowsills
Take part in wedding competitions
Trying on the bride's wedding dress until she becomes a wife
Transfer water, food and things across the threshold of the house
Sit and eat on the doorstep of the house
Grow oleander at home

What will marriage be like according to the months of the year?

Family life depends on the wedding month

In addition to the above signs, a girl who has already received a marriage proposal should pay attention to the meaning of the chosen wedding month:

January. Signifies early widowhood.
February. Married life in peace and harmony.
March. Life away from home.
April. Happiness will not last long.
May. You will suffer all your life, or you will receive betrayal.
June. Married life will be as sweet as a honeymoon.
July. This month suggests that a married couple will experience both sorrows and joys.
August. The husband will become a reliable support, friend and lover.
September. Family life will be calm and quiet.
October. This month marks frequent difficulties for the family.
November. The family will live in prosperity and wealth.
December. Every year the love of a married couple will be stronger and stronger.

Definitely, signs should not be taken literally. But you need to listen to them. After all, they have the effect of a magnet. So why not attract success and love for years to come with the help of folk signs?

In any case, the girl needs to figure out what exactly she wants: to get married quickly or to find a faithful and reliable life partner?

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It's no secret - girls always knew the right signs to get married and believed in them.

A large number of noticed harbingers of any future events or situations help to avoid serious failures and minor bad luck.

It is not for nothing that popular superstitions and folk signs ancestors have survived to this day. And today they have become a valuable treasure for the interpretation of various phenomena.

To the centuries-old wisdom of our ancestors in the form of various signs, omens and omens modern world is quite skeptical. After all, now you can prove or disprove anything.

The time of technological progress and rapid development of science explains many things with the help of facts. Therefore, unsubstantiated signs are considered the faith of naive people.

But is this really so? After all, the weather was often determined by changes in nature, and correctly noted character traits and behavior of people born in each of the 12 months turned into a horoscope and formed zodiac signs.

But what worries unmarried girls more than the question of when she will get married?

When will the cherished wedding day come?

In order to get married quickly, it is not enough just one sign that appears, which, moreover, can be created on purpose.

Secret symbols will exist regardless of our attentiveness. But far-fetched signs are just an illusion that soon you will be able to chat with your friends about a happy marriage in a cozy cafe.

It is unlikely that you will be able to bring the long-awaited wedding day closer, hoping not for real action, but solely on astrology or signs, but it is quite possible thanks to them to find out whether marriage will take place in the near future.

Proven omens of marriage:

Dreaming about dead relatives. Premonitions of impending change may manifest themselves in prophetic dreams, even if hidden from our consciousness. Therefore, dreams about non-living ancestors often give a sign to get married.

Find a bouquet of flowers. Not picking up the roses that were given to you, but accidentally stumbling upon a bouquet.

Unpleasant sensations and experiences during the initial stage of sleep. When some incomprehensible incidents happen while half asleep, a girl feels a strange heaviness in her body or feels someone’s presence near the bed, this “strangles the brownie,” driving her out of the house straight into the arms of her future husband.

Prick or cut your finger on New Year's Eve. The old sign does not explain why it predicts marriage.

To get married quickly, you can embroider a red peony. This flower symbolizes happy family life.

It is necessary to sweep the floor from the entrance doors to the windows, and not vice versa.

Fortune smiles on girls who pray and fast on the feast of St. Catherine (November 7).

Become a godmother to a child. As soon as the godson learns to walk, the unmarried girl will find her happiness.

Sitting between two brothers or sisters.

Wedding signs

There is a belief that other people's happiness is contagious! And as if married women all the friends are gradually starting to arrange their personal lives as well. You can find out how soon a cherished event will happen by being a guest at a friend’s wedding!

So, in order for a girl to get married quickly and successfully, they pay attention to the following signs associated with other people’s weddings:

Champagne or wine was accidentally spilled on you.
It is favorable to become a groomsman at a church wedding.
Dancing with the groom is a very good sign to get married.
Catch the wedding bouquet.
Take a pin or hairpin from the bride's dress.

What not to do to avoid being alone

There are also signs that delay marriage. What you should never do if you want to get married as soon as possible:

Sit on the corner of the table during meals.
Sit on the windowsills.
Participate in competitions at the weddings of friends and acquaintances.
Trying on someone else's wedding dress before the bride tied the knot.
Pass water, food and things across the threshold.
Sit on the doorstep and eat.
You can't grow oleander in the house.

What do the months of the year say about marriage?

When the signs happily come true, the marriage proposal has taken place and you are planning a wedding, pay attention to what month you are planning the celebration:

January– previously widowed.
February– peaceful and happy married life.
March- life in another country.
April- short-term happiness.
May- witness betrayal or constantly suffer.
June– family life is like an eternal honeymoon.

July- experience both happy and sad times.
August– the husband will become both a friend and a wonderful lover.
September- calm and quiet family.
October– frequent difficulties.
November- life in abundance and wealth.
December– every year love will become stronger.

Signs are a magnet for attracting love and a soul mate, they clearly indicate what can happen or what eludes you.

However, any presence of symbols in our lives should become motivation for real actions. Sometimes it is better to correct your destiny in time and find the desired happiness than to rely on chance.

However, do not forget what you want more - to get married as soon as possible or to meet a truly loved one?

Predictions and signs push us to positive thoughts and we, in anticipation of expecting something, without noticing it ourselves, begin to strive for the goal. Perhaps the signs are just self-hypnosis, but the fact that they work in practice is an indisputable fact!

Moscow, November 2. Today, in the age of equality, technological progress and global development of the Internet, it seems that people have become closer to each other. No one owes anyone anything, you can see your loved one, even if he is on the other side of the world, and be in touch 24 hours a day. But despite this, people still remain lonely. Any unmarried girl or woman deep down dreams of meeting her ideal man, who will appreciate her for who she is, and not trying to appear.

If you are increasingly wondering when the time will finally come to approach the altar, then pay attention to the following signs and tips. Your wedding day may be much closer than you think.

1. Catch a bouquet at a wedding

Of course, if you catch a bouquet at a wedding, this is a reason to think that the long-awaited day may come very soon. But don't forget that this is not about getting married in a month. First of all, the sign means that among the girls who accompanied you in the hunt for a bouquet, you will be the first to be married. The chances increase if it was a bouquet of peonies. According to statistics, 70% of the girls who caught the bouquet soon had their own wedding.

2. There is no such thing as too much wine

Another sign that predicts not only a quick marriage, but also a strong marriage, if you were accidentally doused with champagne or wine at someone else’s wedding. And if the groom invited you to dance, then the chances of an upcoming marriage increase significantly.

3. Take care of the bride

If you want to get married faster, ask your bride-to-be friend for permission to hem the hem of her wedding dress. This tradition brings one’s own marriage closer. In addition, the chances of success increase if you take the pin or needle from the dress with you afterwards.

4. If you want to get married, become a godmother

If you have been chosen as a godmother, you should prepare for the wedding in the next two to three years. It is believed that when a child begins to walk, he godmother will get married.

5. Surround yourself with peonies

To get married, surround yourself with peonies. These can be real flowers or artificial ones, a painting of peonies. It’s even better to embroider a peony yourself. It is believed that as soon as the final touch is done, you will meet the future groom.

6. Prick your finger

If during the New Year's celebration you accidentally pricked or cut your finger, then you may soon get married.

7. Sitting between brothers/sisters

If during someone else's wedding celebration you sit between two brothers or sisters, then this is a good sign of your upcoming marriage.

8. Find a bouquet of flowers

Another sign associated with a bouquet, but not so well known, is that if you accidentally find flowers somewhere, you can very soon meet your future husband. However, you should not choose such a bouquet; it may carry negative information.

9. Strict fasting and prayer

If you want to get married, but not a single sign has worked, then it’s time to start fasting. Every year on November 7, the day of the Great Martyr Catherine, strictly fast, pray and attend church. It is also recommended to follow Lent and pray for the groom.

10. Cacti: you want it and it pricks you

Your friends can help you get married faster. To do this, they should give you cacti more often. This sign means a quick and successful marriage.

Of course, every girl dreams of meeting her one and only, but if you really want to live a long and happy family life, you shouldn’t rush into choosing a partner. And most importantly, you don’t need to carefully prepare for the time when you meet your love. Live for today, and then she will find you herself.

Ekaterina Degtereva